Social awkward?
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04-11-2020 01:27 PM - edited 04-11-2020 01:41 PM
Something I briefly commented about in another thread.
People are social distancing, staying home, avoiding contact, standing 6ft/2m apart, all that. Well, at least most people are, as much as possible. Many still gotta go to work, buy fuel and groceries, do business which can't be done online, etc, for these some (minimum, controlled) exposure to others is just unavoidable. And some selfish folks just don't care for whatever reasons, I only hope that if/when they get ill they won't infect others or use medical resources needed by others.
But I've noticed that few people dare speak or even make eye contact. I get glares when idly making jokes in lineups, as if I'm breaking some taboo or as if opening mouths will spread deadly contagion. I realize some of my jokes suck, it's true, but seriously it's been a tough crowd in recent times. Even people who are together (couples, families, etc) no longer comfortably interact with each other in public.
I've noticed people online - at least youtube comments and other forums I visit - have been cynical, negative, challenging, and hostile. Far more than the usual smarty pundits and trolling nonsense, normally friendly rational people arguing and venting and lashing out because, I suppose, they're currently denied access to their usual emotional outlets.
I understand we're all being isolated, some are lonely, some are bored, some are frustrated, and many of us are prone to (ugly and harmful) stress response psychology when confronted by ongoing powerlessness, dread, threat, and uncertainty. Those facing financial crisis or serious health risks have even more to worry about. People are tasting fear. Most have never been forced to learn how to deal with it.
I'm just astonished at how quickly and pervasively this "mob mentality" has expressed itself.
And I wonder how little it will take to devolve this vague sense of unease and fear into raw stupid panic.
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04-15-2020 07:11 PM
I'm guessing that people will become more receptive (at a distance) once lifestyle changes become routine.
On the plus side, I am most successful at scaring off my boss. Won't come anywhere near me, backs off whenever I approach, haha.
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04-11-2020 05:02 PM - edited 04-11-2020 05:02 PM
No issues like that yet in my sphere; on my walk folks are moving apart as I approach. 🤔
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04-11-2020 04:10 PM
People have to understand that we are social distancing just to keep ourselves safe from this pandemic. Every body can still say a hi or even a small smile from a distance helps to cover that distance that has been created now mentally..so please let's make this world more beautiful and hopeful with a smile even when we are social distancing..
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04-11-2020 02:21 PM
@Korth The last time I went to Costco almost 2 weeks ago (in a line up for almost an hour), while most people were trying to observe the distancing rule, I didn't notice any more than the expected wariness and was even able to share small talk/joke about the line up with a couple of others ahead of me. Maybe it's got more stressed since then, will find out in a couple of days.
But I would agree that it doesn't take long for far too many of us to succumb to the more "basic human instincts" and "mob mentality" when stressful events, over which we have little control, occur and that is always disappointing but I would say hardly surprising.
OTH there are all the people who have had to go to work everyday to keep essential services/supplies going from hospital, policing, grocery stores etc. who seem to be able to rise above it all and show real courage and compassion.
It would be nice if we could all keep some perspective, though not likely...
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04-11-2020 01:39 PM
@Korth totally have noticed this as well. After being with family in quarantine, it would be nice to talk to other people just to change it up. I had to go to Costco earlier this week. Inline for 40 minutes to get into the store and most people wouldn't even share a smile let alone a comment.
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